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Anxiety: The silent thief of joy

We've all been there. That feeling of dread in the pit of your stomach. The racing heart, the shortness of breath, the cold sweats. Anxiety is a normal human emotion that we all experience from time to time. But for some of us, anxiety can be a constant companion, robbing us of our joy and peace.

If you're struggling with anxiety, know that you're not alone. In fact, according to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the United States, affecting 40 million adults. That's 18% of the population!

Fortunately, there are many things you can do to reduce your anxiety and live a happier, healthier life. Here are five exercises that can help:

1. Live in the present moment.

One of the main things that fuels anxiety is worry about things that have happened in the past or might happen in the future. If you can learn to focus on the here and now, you'll be less likely to get caught up in anxious thoughts. One way to do this is to practice mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation is a form of mindfulness that involves focusing your attention on your breath and being aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment.

2. Get rid of perfectionism

Perfectionism is another major contributor to anxiety. When we strive for perfection, we set ourselves up for disappointment because no one is perfect! Instead of striving for perfection, try to focus on doing your best and accepting yourself for who you are flaws and all.

3. Exercise

We all know that exercise is good for our physical health, but did you know it's also good for our mental health? Exercise releases endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects. So next time you're feeling anxious, go for a walk or take a yoga class instead of reaching for unhealthy coping mechanisms like alcohol or drugs.

4. Connect with loved ones

One of the best things you can do when you're feeling anxious is reach out to loved ones for support. Talking to someone who understands what you're going through can help you feel less alone and more supported. Sharing your worries with someone else can also help put them into perspective and give you some much-needed perspective.

5. Breathing exercises

Last but not least, one of the quickest ways to calm down when you're feeling anxious is to focus on your breath. When we're anxious, our breathing becomes shallow and rapid, which can make our anxiety worse. By taking deeper breaths and focusing on our breath, we can quickly reduce our anxiety levels."

If you're struggling with anxiety, know that there are many things you can do to feel better. From mindfulness meditation to exercise to talking to loved ones, there are many ways to reduce anxiety and live a happier life.