Blair Bisher is a professor, addiction specialist and coach helping men quickly overcome compulsive sexual behavior including porn and sex addiction. He brings an empathic and empowering approach with a focus on achieving sustainable sobriety quickly.
Blair only accepts a set number of clients to ensure help is immediately available when you need it, offering flexible scheduling including same-day, weekends and evenings because he understands that the consequences of addictive behavior can’t wait another day.
Utilizing a Solution-Focused framework, Blair tailors his core curriculum to your specific needs, which has been proven to be successful for hundreds of men, read client testimonials here.
In addition to your 1:1 sessions, you will receive homework to allow these newly acquired skills to become second nature and have access to Blair between sessions via text messaging and email. Clients rapidly adopt these skills and experience freedom quickly. This is not a replacement for therapy and serves to be complementary as it is leveraging a solution-focused coaching and empowerment model specific to rapid improvement and healing for men dealing with problematic sexual behavior.
How to Schedule a 1:1 Session: Appointments are available 7 days per week, including evening sessions. Simply click to the right to schedule your first session, an initial consult, or to join the Men’s Sexual Integrity Group.
Men’s Sexual Integrity Group: Blair hosts a virtual men’s group every Thursday. Find community with men who have had similar experiences and break the addictive cycle fueled by isolation. All are welcome, click to the right to book and join.
More About Blair: Blair is currently a doctoral candidate pursuing his Ph.D. in Psychology with a research focus on resilience amongst those with a compulsive sexual behavior disorder, defining how sustainable sobriety is achieved. He is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist candidate, holds an MS degree, is a professor at two universities in Boston, is a former advisory board member at Harvard Medical School (Center for Primary Care), and member of both the American Counseling Association and International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals.
Our Services…
In-Person Intensive
Accelerate your work while charting a sustainable path forward. Tailored, in-person intensive within Greater Boston. Half & Full-day options.
1:1
Work 1:1 through a tailored curriculum to understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior.
Group
Find your community and break isolation as your strive towards sustainable sexual integrity.
Click here to read letters of wisdom written by clients giving advice to themselves if they could go back to their first day in recovery from porn addiction, sex addiction, ifidelity and other problematic sexual behaviors. Be inspired and take comfort in their words of seasoned wisdom.
“Hey man. Your worst fears will come true. And, believe it or not, it will be the best thing that ever happened to you... Go find what makes you happy, and not just what makes you numb the hurt.”
~RM
“...Shame is going to be your biggest adversary. You will come to recognize how it’s always been a comfortable disposition for you to sit in. Fight this with everything you have. Don’t focus on yourself, don’t be self-centered as you must focus on your wife and her hurt and what she needs. Shame will prevent you from doing this. Learn to engage with people again. Become a volunteer. Join a men’s therapy group. These efforts will help you feel less shameful...”
~LM
“It’s day 1 of realizing that you have a real problem that you can’t passively fix. You are scared, you are alone, you don’t want to believe that you have a problem, you don’t want to believe that porn/sex addiction is real, let alone something that could hook its claws into you and not let go. Most of all you do not want a single soul to find out what is going on with you. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you. Break isolation. Pick up the phone and call a friend. Your family and friends love you. Meet new people, trust me - get out there.
Tell someone what is going on with you, it can be anyone you trust. They will not oust you... move it out of your own head. Get a journal with good paper and a nice pen, and write ‘check-ins’ daily. Start the day off present... break free from your reliance on the phone. Get professional, 1:1 help. You don’t know what you don’t know, they will help you shape a recovery process for you.”
~PS
“You will learn that self-medicating with porn or working all the time were just ways to avoid your childhood. No one should be “taking care of themselves” from age 13 on. The people in your life left you... Porn was just a way to avoid the feelings. Keep getting help and using your tools to be grounded and to become a self-expert in your feelings. The love of your family will lift you up, motivate you and yes…scare you… and also let you know that YOU GOT THIS.”
~BP
