Sustainable sexual sobriety is not about the ‘absence’ of certain behavior, rather, it is the journey of self-mastery.
This graphic represents several of the most important aspects of self-awareness that will drive toward sexual integrity and freedom from sex addiction, porn addiction, repeated infidelity, or other problematic sexual behaviors.
Our Locations
173 Mt Auburn St
Watertown, MA 02472
14 Cedar St.
Amesbury, MA 01913
Hours (EST)
Monday–Friday
9:00 AM – 11:00 PM
Saturday & Sunday by request.
The Team
Blair P. Bisher
Blair helps men understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior: porn addiction, sex addiction and infidelity.
Blair’s approach focuses on the person, not the “problem,” leveraging a solution-focused, empathic and empowering approach with a focus on achieving sustainable sexual integrity through identifying then meeting the underlying need.
Sessions can be scheduled directly online including same-day and evening options. Sessions are guided by a curated 14-item curriculum, and include homework to aid further development between sessions.
How to Schedule a Session: Appointments are available 6 days per week, including evening sessions. Simply click to schedule your first session, an initial consult, an in-person intensive or to join the Men’s Sexual Integrity Group.
Blair is a board-certified National Certified Counselor® (NCC) having successfully completed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), certification being awarded by the National Board for Certified Counselors. He is also a doctoral candidate pursuing his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology (concentration in sustainable sexual integrity in those meeting criteria for Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder), a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist candidate with the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals, he holds two Masters degrees (in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Health Administration), is a professor at two universities in Boston, is a an advisory board member at Suffolk University, former advisory board member at Harvard Medical School (Center for Primary Care), training under Dr. Paul Falconer, and member of both the American Counseling Association and International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals. Blair has authored 'The Sexual Integrity Workbook' and speaks nationally, most recently at the Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder conference in Nashville, TN on the topic of 'Artificial Intimacy and AI's Role in Problematic Sexual Behavior.' 
Jess Benedetto
Jess collaborates with couples and individual partners who have been impacted by problematic sexual behavior, sex addiction, porn addiction, and repeated infidelity and betrayal.
She helps her clients rebuild trust and a healthier vision for their partnership and themselves, working toward sexual, relational, and personal wellness and integrity. Working from a humanistic and strengths-based lens, Jess employs an eclectic approach that is trauma- and neuroscience-informed and draws from Acceptance and Commitment, Cognitive Behavioral, Narrative, and Psychodynamic therapies. As a certified yoga instructor and nature enthusiast Jess also loves to bring movement and mindfulness into her work to help her clients build healthier relationships with their bodies and minds. Her clients explore their underlying needs, where unmet and unexpressed needs lead to problematic behaviors, motivation to change those behaviors, and core values, visions, and goals to guide them toward a more fulfilling future.
Jess holds an MA in Mental Health Counseling and Behavioral Medicine from Boston University School of Medicine, has passed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor exam (NCMHCE), and is a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher with the National Yoga Alliance. She comes to the psychotherapy field after a rewarding career as an organizational consultant. Her experience helping non-profit leaders identify needs and collaborate on shared visions, values, and goals has been instrumental in her work with couples. Book with Blair
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Package Options
No-Show / Cancelation Policy: Refunds will not be issued for missed appointments or reschedules/cancelations within 24 hours of appointment time. Clients may cancel or reschedule an appointment anytime via the link in their appointment confirmation email, as long as they provide greater than 24-hour notice. If you miss or cancel an appointment with less than 24-hour notice, or fail to show up, you will be charged for the full session. PRIVACY: We will never share your data with anyone.