Sustainable sexual integrity is possible. In this video Blair provides a deep-dive into the 14-item curated curriculum helping men understand, overcome and heal from problematic sexual behavior.
Problematic sexual behavior most often presents as porn addiction, sex addiction, infidelity, repeated infidelity, love addiction and sexual anorexia.
Several topics covered across the fourteen sessions include understanding the addiction cycle, defense mechanisms, creating a relapse prevention plan, defining your process, understanding the role of intimacy within the individual, if in a relationship discussing partner betrayal trauma and how best to support one’s partner, understanding the impact of one’s childhood experiences which drive attachment style and so much more.
All of this leads up to an individual becoming an expert on themselves, not simply stopping a problematic behavior. In working together, this quite often becomes a self-expertise presentation which will test one’s level of mastery and increase memory retention to ensure the learnings, tools, insights gained are retained long-term.
Sex and porn addiction are frequently viewed through the prism of personal suffering, but it also provides a unique insight into human nature. The actions, urges, and cycles of addiction conceal a deeper awareness of our desires, NEEDS, self-limiting beliefs and behavioral patters. Sex addiction and porn addiction teaches us about the human need for pleasure, the difficulties of self-control, and the complicated interplay of isolation and connection. While addiction is damaging, it also teaches us essential things about ourselves and others. This article investigates what addiction may tell us about human nature, revealing truths that, when recognized, can lead to healing and personal progress.